Hello
Friend
I know
the World is really a messed up place right now with the corona virus pandemic
claiming lives daily and people waking up every day and not knowing whether it
will be their last - what with the mass shootings, the mass murders, the serial
kidnappings, the tortures, the gang rapes and all that as if lives no longer matter
Yea we
are really in for the long thing since bad and negative news has become our
daily diet whether we want to eat it or not BUT I want to let you know that
irrespective of the negativity around and about us, you can still make a choice
to remain positively minded and focused and to do that I'd like to show you 3 positive
thinking tips that will greatly improve your
perspective and help you deal with negative
thoughts
1) Have The Unconquerable Mindset.
Affirm to yourself, "Here I am, and I am
here to stay, World, do your worst!"
It may sound like you're inviting bad luck, but
what this really means is that you're welcoming life's challenges with open
arms and are willing to bravely take them on.
Like a proud sentinel in a storm, you stand firm
against anything flung at you.
And no matter how muddied and besieged you
emerge from the battle, you emerge nonetheless, ever ready to fight and live
another day.
2) Do A Good Deed.
One thing that can open you up to positivity is
doing good things.
If you find a needy person asking for help, be a
good World Citizen.
Not only will you feel better, you'll also have
more reason to believe that life is not that bad.
If there are people who are willing to do good
without asking for anything in return, then this
planet would a much better place.
"I did good today" is one mantra that
never fails to lift up your spirits.
And doing
good does not have to be all about giving out money or buying gift items or
buying food for hungry people, it could be just a simple smile to lift the
spirit of one who is depressed, it could be helping that grand dad or grand ma
cross the busy road, it could be helping that lost kid to locate his family -
quite a number of small acts to help out humanity and this is the reason it is
said that "no one is without something to give"
3) Be Around Positive Thinkers.
The company you surround yourself with can more
or less affect you the way you look at life.
If your friends see the world in a dark and
twisted perspective, you shouldn't be surprised to find yourself feeling
depressed more often than not.
Jim Rohn
captured it aptly when he said that "you are the average of 5 persons you
spend the most time with"
If your
friends are all whiners, complainers, whisperers, gossips - would it be surprising to find you
swimming in that same ocean too?
Even the
very Good Book says - "show me your friends and I will tell you who you
are"
Keep away from negative people and hang out with
the positive ones.
Let the latter group influence you with their
ways.
It's easier to remain positive when the people
around you support your point of view.
Choose
your friends wisely and turn a new page in your life.
That's it
for today
I'll see
you again in the next mail
Have a
great day
Remember
to remain positive always despite the conditions and circumstances around you
Ciao
Dr. Jerry
- the First Oguzie: JP
#MondayMotivation