Be Positive Always No Matter What

Hello Friend

I know the World is really a messed up place right now with the corona virus pandemic claiming lives daily and people waking up every day and not knowing whether it will be their last - what with the mass shootings, the mass murders, the serial kidnappings, the tortures, the gang rapes and all that  as if lives no longer matter

Yea we are really in for the long thing since bad and negative news has become our daily diet whether we want to eat it or not BUT I want to let you know that irrespective of the negativity around and about us, you can still make a choice to remain positively minded and focused and to do that I'd like to show you 3 positive thinking tips that will greatly improve your

perspective and help you deal with negative thoughts

1) Have The Unconquerable Mindset.

Affirm to yourself, "Here I am, and I am here to stay, World, do your worst!"

It may sound like you're inviting bad luck, but what this really means is that you're welcoming life's challenges with open arms and are willing to bravely take them on.

Like a proud sentinel in a storm, you stand firm against anything flung at you.

And no matter how muddied and besieged you emerge from the battle, you emerge nonetheless, ever ready to fight and live

another day.

2) Do A Good Deed.

One thing that can open you up to positivity is doing good things.

If you find a needy person asking for help, be a good World Citizen.

Not only will you feel better, you'll also have more reason to believe that life is not that bad.

If there are people who are willing to do good without asking for anything in return, then this

planet would a much better place.

"I did good today" is one mantra that never fails to lift up your spirits.

And doing good does not have to be all about giving out money or buying gift items or buying food for hungry people, it could be just a simple smile to lift the spirit of one who is depressed, it could be helping that grand dad or grand ma cross the busy road, it could be helping that lost kid to locate his family - quite a number of small acts to help out humanity and this is the reason it is said that "no one is without something to give"

3) Be Around Positive Thinkers.

The company you surround yourself with can more or less affect you the way you look at life.

If your friends see the world in a dark and twisted perspective, you shouldn't be surprised to find yourself feeling depressed more often than not.

Jim Rohn captured it aptly when he said that "you are the average of 5 persons you spend the most time with"

If your friends are all whiners, complainers, whisperers,  gossips - would it be surprising to find you swimming in that same ocean too?

Even the very Good Book says - "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are"

Keep away from negative people and hang out with the positive ones.

Let the latter group influence you with their ways.

It's easier to remain positive when the people around you support your point of view.

Choose your friends wisely and turn a new page in your life.

That's it for today

I'll see you again in the next mail

Have a great day

Remember to remain positive always despite the conditions and circumstances around you

Ciao

Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

#MondayMotivation

Whatever It Is, Go Do It

My Monday Motivational

Whatever It Is, Go Do It

As I learned from New York Times Bestselling Author, John Assaraf, what happens when most people learn something new is that, because it causes a mental disruption, the mind actually begins to create false doubts, fears, and anxiety around the idea.

Then, for most people, this causes them to self-sabotage in order to get back to where they are very comfortable.

WHOA WHOA WHOA — That got deeeeeeeeep.

Let’s slow it down a little and try to make some sense of all this.

First things first, let’s look at what makes people successful.

Step 1 - Gather all the knowledge needed to be successful

Get them in books

Attend Training, Seminars, Workshops, Conferences

Attend Networking events

Interview those who have made it in the field you are in

Step 2 - Apply the knowledge

That’s about it.

Interestingly enough, though, most people are only able to achieve Step 1.

When it comes to Step 2, you let yourself get in your own way.

Look, the only person stopping you from achieving anything you decide you want is YOU.

How do you get past your own mental barriers?

You simply have to dive in head first and take action.

No matter how small it is, or how insignificant you think it may be, make that first move.

I want you to say, “To hell with the norm,” and prove the statistics wrong.

Don’t wait until later.

Don’t say you’ll get started tomorrow.

Today is the day and NOW is the time

You want to get into Vlogging or Blogging or Online Business, register the domain name, create the Blog or the Online Business or pull out your camera phone, and just start shooting.

Somewhere, the Universe shall take it from where you have started

Remember Heaven helps those who help themselves..

So, stop waiting, stop prevaricating, stop procrastinating

...Whatever it is, just do it!

And just do it NOW

Stop Feeling Sorry For Yourself

Hello

It's Monday and I am here again with My Monday Motivational and today I wanna ask you to 

STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF

You know one of the best pieces of advice I ever received was to stop feeling sorry for myself

You know self-pity is one of those emotions that can really eat you up like when you're trying to achieve a goal

Sometimes you could say oh I'm not gonna achieve it because

I'm not intelligent enough

I'm not attractive enough

I don't have the right experience

I'm too young

I'm too old

I didn't have the right University education

I wasn't brought up in the right Country

Whatever

All these things hold us back

and make us feel sorry

for ourselves

And it feels kind of good

to sometimes feel sorry for ourselves

but like I said earlier, the best piece of advice I ever received was to stop feeling sorry for

myself

And when I took that advise, it opened the way for me to achieve the things I had set my mind to achieve

And when you do follow this advice, it will automatically remove all of the blocks that stop you from achieving your goals

It will help you to automatically let go of all the things that are stopping you from feeling happier in this moment

Self-pity is a weird emotion

it kind of sits in the middle of your soul and just eats up everything around you except itself

stop feeling sorry for yourself

You let go of that emotion you'll feel better

you'll be happier and way more successful than you'd ever imagine

You're made in the Image and Likeness of a Creator

That makes you a co-creator

Go exercise the creative ability in you

Stop feeling sorry for yourself