Saturday, February 6, 2021

Don't Go And Kill Yourself - Read This First


 

Don't Go And Kill Yourself - Read This First

 

And He Told Me - Everything Is Going To Be Alright

Three of us were already in the elevator waiting for it to close and be on the upward swing, and just as it was about to do that, five guys rushed in, completing the number, the three of us already in the elevator moved over and made room. One of the guys stood right next to me and then the door closed and the elevator started its upward journey.

I was heading to the 30th Floor, didn't know who else was heading there as I was alone with my thoughts.

Suddenly, one of the guys that came in last the guy next to me said - "Let's all hold hands together and it will all be all right."

Everyone laughed. I thought maybe he was a Preacher or some Comedian or something like that and I just involuntarily responded

"No it won't."

He turned to me and laughed.

He and his friends started talking a bit.

We were crossing the 5th Floor when he said something again and everyone laughed - I did not catch that because I was far away from there (in my thoughts that is) and then he leaned to me and said. "There are some strange people in this elevator," and he pointed at his friends.

I said, "It might not be a good idea to make friends in elevators." He laughed.

We landed on the eight floor and two persons went out. When we got to the fifteenth Floor, the guy next to me and his friends got ready to exit and then just as he was about to do that, he took my hand and shook it and said to me - "It's going to be alright."

Then he rushed out of the elevator.

I was pleasantly shocked at his action - I did not act friendly, we were not acquainted, could not even exchange names but he still must have read my mind to know that I was troubled or maybe my demeanour must have impressed that upon him.

Those words of his - "it's going to be alright" - brought some comfort to me at that moment

And ever since then, whenever I am stressed about something — if business is a mess one day, if I'm nervous on a program, if I'm late for an important appointment...

If someone in my family is upset at me. If I'm afraid about money, or I feel over-stressed about my schedule...

I always tell myself it's going to be alright.

And I always feel relief. For a brief moment it always feels true. Like I just surrendered to the Universal Force.

The world is in a slump right now, the advent of corona virus has changed the way we used to live and enjoy our lives.

Companies are folding up, people are losing their jobs, so much stress in homes right now, personal economies have been shattered and it does appear like the last days are here - well I don't know about the last days but what I do know is that - soon everything is going to be alright

So when you feel like the whole weight of the world is on your shoulders, when you look into the horizon and you can't see anything, when you think of the future and all you see is fear, relax, don't kill yourself for nothing - this too shall pass and everything will be alright again

Use this as a mantra and you would get out of stress quickly and easily

#successwithdrjerrythefirst


58 comments:

  1. Thank you Sir for this eye opener. The fact is that, since humans still exists on earth, there will be pandemics, diseases, war etc. So, it's necessary for one to always be of a positive attitude because just as Keith Harrell's will always say "Attitude is Everything".

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    1. yea Attitude is surely everything and positive attitude pays great dividends

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  2. ODIMEGWU ODIRA FrancisFebruary 6, 2021 at 9:05 PM

    Far from being an opium, your words are so reassuring and quite motivating. Hakuna Matata . Everything gonna be alright.

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  3. Positive attitude...
    But I wonder why doubts and fears keep interfering when one decides to stay positive

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    1. Our ancient brain which we inherited from our forebears in the dark ages are set at fear, fright and flight - the adrenalines and cortisols of this world ruled that brain and so that is our default setting. To go against that setting one needs grit, gusto, gut and gumption and that is where positive thinking comes in. Each time doubt creeps in, find a positive word or phrase to send it back. Each time fears creeps in, find a positive word or phrase to send it back. that is the way to achieve an extra-ordinary life otherwise if we listen to all our doubts and fears, we would only be existing and not living
      #okoriemary

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    2. Thank you sir for this mind uplifting write up.

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  4. Wow,this is uplifting.Permission to use on radio for a program.Thank you Sir.

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    1. Thank you for visiting our Blog and for your uplifting comment

      Permission is granted

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  5. DR.DENNIS EKWEDIKE: Positive attitude and outlook always win. The story is inspiring !

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    1. Good to read from you #DrDennisEkwedike
      you are right - positive attitude is a game changer any day any time

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  6. Inspiring indeed,God Bless u Sir🙏🏿
    More WISDOM😎

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    1. Thank you for visiting our Blog
      and for your comment
      do come again and again
      remain blessed

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  7. Sure, with the mindset that everything's gonna be alright, I greatly uphold that such a person has conquered the imminent challenge already.

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    1. In the end everything is going to be alright even if they have been all wrong

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  8. Thank you so much sir. This brought great relief..

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    1. Thank you for visiting our Blog and for your uplifting comment. we are glad to read that this post has helped you out. Do keep coming back again and again

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  9. Attitude and positive energy is the key

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    1. @CMSTECHKONSULT
      Thanks for visiting our Blog and for your comment
      Attitude is ever thing and a combination with positive energy is no brainer

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  10. Even due it takes courage to said those words in de mist of real problem;
    There its is a physiological aspect of dose se words dat easy th problem thanks boss

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  11. It's gonna be alright.Thank you for the soul lifting message.

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  12. It's going to be alright, I guess i have to add this to what I usually do when it often seems like things are not moving fine. I take a long breath in for a couple of seconds and while am breathing out, it follows with a smile and I feel much relief and better afterwards. Its been my source of personal strength even when everything seems to have fallen apart. Its going to be alright indeed and am confidently claiming this with all my guts. Thank you for sharing

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    1. Good to read this
      Whatever has a beginning definitely has an end
      and what happens to us do not define us it is our response to what happens to us that defines us
      Keep up the practice

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  13. Whether we remember it or not, it will surely be alright

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    1. If we bear it in mind all the time, it surely would help to smoothen our journey here on earth but the truth of the matter is that we often forget

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  14. It's a reassurance and an indicator of one's faith in times of difficulties

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    1. Without faith, man is completely lost and whatever needs to be done to reinvigorate that faith should be done

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  15. I love this, we should try and encourage others even when they haven't really done anything to warrant such from us, because at the end of the day, we might be adding color to their gloomy day

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    1. Exactly
      Whatever good one does to another surely would come back to him if not directly then indirectly. No good deed is ever wasted

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  16. Wow!this is highly inspiring Dr,and I totally agree with you sir, because there's power in spoken positive words to our souls. And I will like to say this, its better to control our minds with burning desires rather than our minds to control us with obnoxious thinking, because bible says,out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks

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    1. Surely, out of the abundance of the heart the mouth doth speak and so a heart that is suffused with good thoughts would certainly confess good things

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  17. otaren Egua-IdahosaMay 10, 2021 at 8:57 AM

    Wow. Nice piece, positive attitude brings out the best in you no matter the situations or circumstances one might find himself

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    1. Being in a positive mood irrespective of the circumstances or situations is the evidence that God is with you. Allow Him to take control

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  18. Sir you are blessed with wisdom
    May God continue to increase your wisdom, Amen.....
    It's going to be alright 😆

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  19. I am converted by your homily. Good morning Sir and thank you very much for sharing. This assurance of Hope could not have come at a better time than this. Indeed, with faith in God. Believe in ourselves and hope in humanity, "it's going to be alright".

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    1. Hope is always the last thing to go and that is why men are advised not to give up irrespective of what they are passing through, there will always be a silver lining in the dark cloud, a light at the end of the dark tunnel. Just keep faith and hope for a better tomorrow

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  20. He that stays positive stay alive. Thank you sir for lighting up my day.

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    1. Positive Mindedness is an attitude and a way of life. If you want to have life in its fullness, start living that life style

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  21. If one million people in the world today can just believe in this MANTRA, I believe that the world will start changing from today. There are so many people in negative thoughts, they are the real reason the world is in this state today. Thanks for your help.

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    1. I tell you, negative mindedness is the harbinger of the toxic relationships we have that are sending the world askance. But if we start with ourselves, we can always make a huge difference

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  22. Thank you for sharing. This is timely and must still, it's evergreen anytime it's read.

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    1. If we can hold onto this mantra, we would overcome all of life's challenges especially existential problems

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  23. Mind blowing seriously and captivating. It's just like a takes by moonlight told under the ancient family squares at those thrilling dry seasons.

    When an old man makes the story, it keeps static and all ears to land with the melody it brings. Such a thriller, thanks for bringing it to bear, most times we are so busy to coin out inspiration for others.

    Thanks sir for these inspirations. Cheers

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    1. Stories of our lives should be told to encourage others in their journeys

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  24. Thank you sir for this encouragement at a time like this.It is indeed a timely message for all.

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    1. The times we are in demand massive motivation so that people can have a reason to go on living

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  25. Indeed motivated and enthusiastic inspired.. keep up with the good work.. cheers!

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  26. Truly it is not good for people to know that you are depressed by your actions. Relate to people and make the right confessions (Is going to be alright) and before long the situation will change

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    1. Man is an emotional being and it is difficult to hide one's emotions especially when they are overwhelming
      However the consolation is that nothing lasts for ever
      every problem has an expiration date

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  27. I've been going through some stress lately. Reading this is like God talking to me. It's going to be alright

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