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Sex is an important
element in marriage and until there is sexual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually
recognized. This shows how important sex is in marriage.
When you look at how aggressive
men are towards sex you may think that what a man needs from a woman is sex.
Of course, if he has not
married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need
from you is nothing above your body.
But if he really intends
to marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never what he needs from
you - maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS
NOT SEX."
Many young girls think
because they are sexually active and experienced they will easily be married
and have their husbands loving them.
And when a man approaches
for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is sex.
Others also think once
they are giving out their body it means they are giving out the best for which
reason they will be chosen above all.
There is this young girl
who is very beautiful and sexually active. Due to that she thought sex was all
that mattered to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally
getting married. Her sexual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man
until out of the blue, and for reasons beyond imagination, a very handsome good
man married her.
The wedding was grand and
her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the
marriage hit the rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but
none could stay.
The problem was simple.
She thought sex was all that matters so she would never submit.
But submission is what men
need, not sex.
It is time for our young
ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a
woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman who will submit herself to
him. Excuse my language, "every woman has vagina but not every woman has
humility." So when you are a humble woman, you are expensive jewelry, and
a man of integrity will fear to lose you.
What does the Holy Book
say? "Wife, submit to your husband." The reason is that a man's true
love goes out only for a woman who is submissive. Your beauty cannot make
another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other
women.
Sadly, many young ladies
in nowadays see submission as "control." And you will hear them
saying in tiny romantic voices, "As for me I don't want any man to control
me oh."
If you don't want to
submit don't think of marriage because no man in his right sense will offer his
love to a woman whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short he
may be.
When a woman bows her knee
before a man, the man will automatically bow his heart before her love, and
love her sincerely.
There are, of course,
recalcitrant men who will not value women of humility but I tell you that every
true man does not need sex, but submission. It is submission that truly makes
you a romantic wife. So be the African Queen you want to be but when it comes
to dealing with your husband, play the role of a humble maid.
Don't forget that
it is the spirit of humility that has made many maids hijack their mistresses'
husbands.
Be your man's queen and be his maid also.
I wish you all the best as
you submit in your relationship and marriage.
May God bless you with a
good marriage, my dear sisters.
Written By: Catherine Ijeoma Nwike
