1 Day To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people."

If you are going to make any headway anywhere that work is to be done, then you simply have to learn how to relate with other persons. That is key to success.

Life Secret and Tip: 

 " Learn to use and trust your subconscious/intuition.

When you spend time in silence everyday, listen not for words but for a feeling that tells you to do something. Do not mistake your own reasoning and thoughts for those of your subconscious. If you can track where the thought came from, (this thought led to that thought which led to this thought, etc.) then it was not from your subconscious. Learning to accurately discern between the two will allow you to tap into knowledge that you don’t consciously have."

Motivational Quote on Success

"Moderation is the feebleness and sloth of the soul, whereas ambition is the warmth and activity of it". – Francois de la Rochefoucauld

Key Point of Life

Spend some time alone to think what you can give to this world.

BE WISE!

Psychological Life Hack

Stand up straight, have warm hands and always keep eye contact.

• Keep a straight posture and walk like a born leader. This sub-communicates confidence and others will respect you automatically.

• Keep your hands out of your pockets. If you don’t know what to do with them, it is better to fold your arms rather than keep them inside your pockets.

• Keep your hands warm. If you have a warm hand when you shake somebody’s hand, you immediately become a more desirable person to get along with. Secret Tip – wash your hands with warm water often to

keep them warm or take cold showers.

• You have heard this a thousand times. Here is the 1001st. – never lose eye contact! Losing eye contact is like losing your confidence. One cool trick when first meeting someone is to focus on their eye color and smile at the same time. The eyes are the gateway to the soul, and taking the extra second to gaze shows you are confident and present.

(Be sure to move your eyes away periodically, a constant stare will creep people out.)

4 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Count your blessings."

Name them one by one and you would just be surprised at the possessions you possess which no other person has.

Life Secret and Tip: 

 " Don’t burn bridges.

By that I mean maintain your relationships with people even if you think you are never going to see them again. For example, if you are quitting your job, don’t chew out your boss before leaving! You might run into him/her again later and life and wish you had never severed ties so harshly. You never know when you might need the help of someone you knew in the past. Plus there is already too much hatred in this world, why add more towards the people you interact with?"

Motivational Quote on Success

"Aim for the moon, even if you miss you will land among the stars and be showered with the star dust"

Key Point of Life

Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

Psychological Life Hack

Whenever you call a person you want to meet, show excitement!

Always have this in mind. Excitement is contagious. Why do you think the music video from Pharrell Williams – “Happy” got so many views and so many people were talking about it?

People love excitement! It is like an escape from their boring lives. Never forget that.

(You can mirror this and show disappointment if somebody let’s you down, making them painfully aware of their hurtful actions.)

12 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks you're terrific.'

Valentine day is supposed to be a day to show love and love is not just between two persons, the world is in need of love, so many people are hurting

Life Secret and Tip:

" Be mysterious.

Don’t let off everything about you and definitely leave out some major details. There is something both alluring and mesmerizing about someone who no one knows fully about. I’m not saying to confide in no one or to alienate yourself. Just think James Bond."

Motivational Quote on Success

" Those who do most, dream most"

Key Point of Life

In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

Psychological Life Hack

If you ask someone a question and they only partially answer, just wait. They will keep talking.

This is a very common situation when you don’t know the other person that well or your question wasn’t clear enough.

If they finish the answer without providing a full answer, just wait.

Stay silent and keep eye contact. If the tension becomes unbearable, raise your eyebrows. It puts a bit of pressure on them but it communicates that you show interest.

It also sub-communicates that you are a person that usually gets what he wants.

13 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Once in a while, take the scenic route."

Explore Nature, it's so much more beautiful than all the drudgeries of life put together

Life Secret and Tip:

" Learn to use your eyes to their full potential:

Make constant eye contact when in conversation. Looking away (especially down) is a sign of inferiority and uncertainty. Instead, look at your conversation partner dead in the eyes and keep them locked on

Master the piercing stare. You know when someone looks at you and it feels like they can see into your soul? Well that’s not a hereditary characteristic, it just takes practice. Work on sharpening your gaze in the mirror. You’ll know you have it when it’s intimidating to continue looking at yourself

Master the one-eyebrow raise. This one isn’t necessary by any means, but hey, why not? Pick a brow to learn with and go look in a mirror. Raise both of your eyebrows but use your hand to hold down the brow that you want to stay down. This will probably feel very stupid at first but if you keep trying, you will eventually pin down the muscle you need to flex to get that one brow up"

Motivational Quote on Success

"Take a method and try it. If it fails, admit it frankly, and try another. But by all means, try something."– Franklin Roosevelt

Key Point of Life

Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

Psychological Life Hack

Having trouble remembering names? Repeat the other person’s name during the conversation.

I suck at remembering names. I usually don’t even listen to the other person when he says his name the moment we get introduced to each other.

So usually, I ask a friend to introduce himself to the person so I can listen to his name. But then I forget it again.

Awkward.

Remembering names is very important because we feel important when someone mentions us.

So the moment you meet someone repeat his name. Example: “Hi my name is Alex” “Nice to meet you Alex.

So, Alex how do you know John?” And continue to repeat his name throughout the conversation.

14 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Begin each day with some of your favourite music."

Music is the food of the soul; give your soul an early morning diet and your day is made.

Try it today and see

Life Secret and Tip:

"Work on making good first impressions.

Practice a strong, firm handshake and the small talk that generally goes along with meeting someone for the first time. People won’t know what to think of you if you have nothing more to say beyond “My name is _______, nice to meet you.” Also make sure you remember names, as mentioned previously. Who knows, you may be going into business with or marrying this person you’re meeting for the first time if you make a good impression. Be sure and make an excellent one."

Motivational Quote on Success

" Faith is daring to put your dream to the test. It is better to try to do something and fail than to try to do nothing and succeed." – Robert Schuller

Key Point of Life

Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who

don't have dreams don't have much.

Psychological Life Hack

Want to see if someone is paying attention to what you are saying? Fold your arms.

Usually when we are in the middle of a conversation and especially if we talk about something very important to us, we get lost in our talking and rarely pay attention to whether the other person is following or not.

So instead of losing time talking to a person who is distracted and might not even be interested in what you are saying, do this.

Fold your arms while talking and see if the other person follows your move. If the other person is observing you and pays attention, they will most likely mimic you.

15 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes."

People tend to get well faster when those around them show care and concern.

Life Secret and Tip:

" Relax!

This one is for you workaholics out there (myself included). Yes, work is very important and productive but you need to take some time to chill out everyday or you are going to burn out faster than a candle with no oxygen. Additionally, you need to reward yourself for a job well done. What’s the use of doing all of that work if you can’t have a little fun from time to time anyways?"

Motivational Quote on Success

"In any situation, the best thing you can do is the right thing; the next best thing you can do is the wrong thing; the worst thing you can do is nothing." – Theodore Roosevelt  

Key Point of Life

Be engaged at least six months before you get

married.

Psychological Life Hack

If you want to get a positive response from someone, nod while you talk.

This one is extremely powerful and also a bit manipulative especially if the person is suggestive.

So use it with your own responsibility and in an ethical way.

Getting a positive response from someone is usually what we want.

Whether it is making a sale, or promoting a viewpoint, we always want people to get on board.

Nodding while you try to deliver your message is a powerful way to get the person to agree with you.

People usually like mimicking, so they will most probably nod back while you talk.

This will subsequently communicate to their brains that they have to agree with you.

19 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the ones you did"

Life Secret and Tip:

" Meditate everyday for at least 20 minutes.

In this modern world where everyone is so connected to everything else via cell phones, TV and internet, most people rarely enjoy the beauty of silence. The ability to quiet your mind and relax your body is an art and skill that everyone should develop. Simply sit somewhere, preferably in nature, and focus on your breathing or try to think about nothing. This is going to be extremely hard at first! You might find it boring or just plain impossible to think of nothing, but you will get better and you will learn to love it. Post-meditation, you will feel extremely clear-headed and.. well, just plain wonderful. The only way to really understand this sensation is to try it "

Motivational Quote on Success

" Watch the sunrise at least once a year, put a lot of marshmallows in your hot chocolate, lie on your back and look at the stars, never buy a coffee table you can't put your feet on, never pass up a chance to jump on a trampoline, don't overlook life's small joys while searching for the big ones." – Jackson Brown

Key Point of Life

Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

Psychological Life Hack

Pay attention to people’s feet when you are approaching them.

Interrupting people when they are in the middle of an important conversation is one of the most annoying things to do.

It shows that you have zero knowledge of social dynamics which will lead to unpleasant social situations.

When you approach a group of people while in a conversation, pay attention to their bodies. If they turn only their torsos and not their feet, it means they are in the middle of an important conversation and they don’t want you to interrupt them.

If they turn both torso and feet, it means you are welcome.

This is extremely important, because the right timing in such situations may put you in a position of advantage, especially if the conversation was boring for both sides.

24 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born."

I see a lot of people going about and boasting of what they can do and what they can't do. Some even claim that with just a wave of their hands, heaven will fall down to earth.

Well, it is important for us to always remember that "there is nothing new under the Sun" and so we have to be modest in our claims because whatever we think we can do or not do, someone somewhere sometime ago had done or not done that

Simplicity is the watch word here

Life Secret and Tip:

" Read “Zen and the Art of Happiness” by Chris Prentiss.

This book will give you the knowledge and instruction to be happy at all times regardless of the circumstances. Yes, this sounds like an oversimplification of happiness, but I assure you that this book will change you in an amazing way."

49 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

"When having a handshake with anyone, do not only make it a FIRM and STRONG handshake but also LOOK THEM STRAIGHT IN THE EYES - eyeball to eyeball"

Life Secret and Tip:

"Memorize something everyday.

Not only will this leave your brain sharp and your memory functioning, you will also have a huge library of quotes to bust out at any moment. Poetry, sayings and philosophies are your best options."