School of Life
piece of advise:
" Think twice before
burdening a friend with a secret."
If you really
have a secret that you don't want anyone else to know, the one reliable person
to keep that secret is YOU.
If you ever
breathe out your secret to someone you call your bosom friend, then it is no
longer a secret because one day, just one good day, you would be shocked to the
marrows to know that your secret is actually an open secret.
Life Secret and
Tip:
" The Rubber Band Method
This is the third and
final way to rid yourself of negative thoughts (hopefully by now you have
figured out that this is very important!). Place a rubber band around your
wrist and snap it against your skin anytime a negative thought finds its way
into your head. This operant conditioning technique associates a slight pain
with negative thoughts like Pavlov associated food/salivation with the sound of
a bell. Sounds a bit cruel at first but it only stings for a second, I promise.
Plus the outcome, having only positive thoughts, far outweighs a little slap on
the wrist here and there."
This was sent to me as a facebook inbox text by SIMEON MONDAY AMEH
ReplyDelete"Truly, a secret remains a secret until it is linked to a second party. The second party may be your best friend. It is generally assumed that such secret can be kept by your so called friend. You need to know that your "best friend" also has a best friend which you do not know. He tells him and the link continues until it eventually get to your hearing. A secret is no longer a secret the moment it is revealed to a third party. What you think is a secret is known to all but can even be kept away from you. You alone is qualified to keep your secret secret. * Your heart is the centre of attraction to all thoughts (good or bad). Our heart is like a dumping ground. You have the grace or rather, a God given ability to refuse either of them as they are been ministered to you. Don't get carried away. Think positively because it breeds positive possessions."