“You shouldn’t judge a book by it’s cover” — we’ve all heard it, we all do it. We shouldn’t, but it’s practically instinctual.
Of course, life and business are simpler when you boil it down to statistics —
most people will make a ton of assumptions about you within the first five
seconds of meeting you in regard to your attractiveness, potential for success,
personality, etc.
When you bring business
into the mix, first impressions of new colleagues and connections can be
crucial.
So within those first five
seconds of meeting someone, how do you give off an aura of success?
The answer is simple — look the part. Of course, that all stops as soon as you
open your mouth to speak, so you’ll at least have to sound smart as well.
It might sound obvious, but a 2011 Canadian study involving 87 university
students found that professionally dressed men came off as more successful and
were expected to make more money.
The sloppily dressed men
were expected to be made fun of at work.
A more recent 2013 Turkish study closed in on what exactly a man should wear to
come off as more successful, and the answer is not surprising.
“The man was rated more positively on all attributes apart from trustworthiness
when pictured in the bespoke suit … On the evidence of this study it appears
men may be advised to purchase clothing that is well‐tailored, as it can
positively enhance the image they communicate to others.”
So in a manner of
speaking, success, or at least the look of success, can be bought at your local
tailor.
Additionally, a 1990 study
found that women who dress more masculine, even though some might consider it
sexist, and wear outfits and suits with straight silhouettes, angular lines and
darker colors, are more hireable.
So the lesson here is if you want to come off as successful in those first five
seconds of meeting someone, whether you are a man or woman, wear a suit. Look
nice.
Comb your hair, trim your
nails and shave if you have to.
That Zuckerberg
jeans-and-hoodie look only works after you are a billionaire.
Don’t try to look hot or
sexy either, as that actually lowers other people’s perception of your power
and success.
Holding a glass of Scotch while wearing a suit will either give you a ton more
swagger and/or make you look like an alcoholic — the gamble is yours to make.
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