Wednesday, July 13, 2022

Between Reality And Possibility

 


Hello My Friend,

Life can get difficult, right?

There’s no secret there.

Sometimes work might seem like a burden, home life can get hard, and many other things can go wrong.

But the challenge is to not to look at any of these things as being indicative of what you will have or experience tomorrow. 

The great trap almost everyone falls into is using one’s senses to determine what is real and what is possible.

We look at our bank account to decide what’s possible.

We succumb to the feeling of hopelessness when things go sideways.

We hear things that cause us to question our dreams.

Despite all this, it’s important to remember that what we are sensing is only real beyond that moment if we allow the thoughts to continue.

Understanding the difference between what you think of as reality versus the  possibility available to you is the key to success and to effective leadership.

Do you still feel like something is holding you back from becoming the person you really want to be?, the one who manifests his dreams and the life you were designed to live?

Drop me a private message and we shall take it from there

Have a great day

#oganononsense


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Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog is owned by Topitup Media And Communication Nigeria whose Team Head is Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

At Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog, we believe that life is a continuous process of learning, that successful people are continuous learners and that your success is completely dependent on you

About Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie is a Physician, an Author, a Writer, Thinker, Founder, Convener and Success Coaching addict. He is passionate about helping people become the best versions of themselves through coaching, mentoring, teaching, enlightening and enhancing their self worth. And the Platform he uses to reach out to people is his Ministry of Encouragement  (MoE). He has deep interests in Personal Development including mindset reset and habit change, Personal Finance, Wealth Creation, Health and Fitness. He believes that financial knowledge (literacy) combined with self - discipline is the key to achieving financial  freedom.

He is the author of The Practical Steps To Total Financial Freedom -



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Friday, May 13, 2022

From The Stables Of Dr. Jerry - the First

 


Some Home Truths You Need To Know

 

1.   When you’re ascending, keep your mouth shut. Don't boast. Some righteous people with the PHD certificate are waiting to do what they love to do best - pull you down

2.   Mind who you communicate your unborn ideas and plans to. Some people will steal your ideas and get them running before you even have the time to say Jack

3.   When you're working hard, don't announce what you're doing. Wait till the results speak for themselves.

4.   Yes, one good turn deserves another but don't expect that because you were good to someone, they will in turn be good to you. Some people practice UAD - USE AND DUMP

5.   Never lend money to a friend or a brother, you will never get it back. Money has scattered families and friendships.

6.   There is only one job you have on daily basis and that is HOW TO MAKE YOURSELF BETTER THAN YOU WERE YESTERDAY

7.   Beware of gossips and tale- bearers, they are usually liars and they can sell you for just a morsel of meat

8.   There are hearts made out of flesh from where agape love flows and there are hearts made out of bones from where hatred flows. Which do you possess? Judge yourself

9.   Hard work surely pays and no one has ever been said to have died from hard work but when you are working so hard and getting little dividends, it's time to re-evaluate what you're doing.

10.            If you want big things to happen to you, take  notice of the small things happening to you now and be grateful for them.

 11.     Sometimes what you’re trying to hold onto is exactly what you should let go. Know when to call it quits

12.            If you want to buy things without looking at the price, work without looking at the clock.

13.            God puts people in your life for a reason, and removes them from your life for a better reason.

14.            The devil wouldn’t be attacking you so hard if there wasn’t something valuable in you. Thieves don’t break into empty houses. But check well within you that you are not the devil incarnate

15       You’re going to piss a lot of people off when you start doing what’s best for you.

16.            You will lose a lot of friends when you get really serious about your life goals.

17.            Life does not get EASIER. You just get STRONGER.

18.            Do not ask for that cup of bitters be taken away from you, rather ask that you be given the strength to bear its taste

19.            Stop forcing yourself on people. Stop forcing people to love you. Stop pleasing people to be in their good books. If they don't love you, bring heaven down to them, they still would not

20.            Be yourself. Live the life given to you. Stop waiting for people to do things for you, go do them. There is only one YOU on planet Earth and if you remember that YOU  ONLY LIVE ONCE, then you have to put in all your energy in living this life right here right now.

Do you have any home truths to add?
Drop them in the comment section

Thank you for visiting


Dr. Jerry - the First

#oganononsense


About the Blog

Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog is owned by Topitup Media And Communication Nigeria whose Team Head is Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

At Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog, we believe that life is a continuous process of learning, that successful people are continuous learners and that your success is completely dependent on you

About Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie is a Physician, an Author, a Writer, Thinker, Founder, Convener and Success Coaching addict. He is passionate about helping people become the best versions of themselves through coaching, mentoring, teaching, enlightening and enhancing their self worth. And the Platform he uses to reach out to people is his Ministry of Encouragement  (MoE). He has deep interests in Personal Development including mindset reset and habit change, Personal Finance, Wealth Creation, Health and Fitness. He believes that financial knowledge (literacy) combined with self - discipline is the key to achieving financial  freedom.

He is the author of The Practical Steps To Total Financial Freedom 



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Thursday, May 5, 2022

From The Stables Of Dr. Jerry - the First

 


A Solemn Message From Me To You

 

Listen,

as the month of May 2022 unfolds, let me tell you something!

The most empowering thing you can do in life is to take 100% responsibility for everything in your life. Your failures, your successes, your guffaws, your mistakes, your over indulgences, your tomfooleries,  your one- night- stand, your one -drink- too -many, your everything

Stop blaming past circumstances.

Stop blaming people.

Stop blaming what happened to you.

Stop blaming your parents

Stop blaming your ancestors, they are dead and gone

in short, stop the BLAME game

Stop pointing accusing fingers, when you point one finger, three others are pointing back at you thus declaring you more guilty

You cannot undo what has been done BUT you can learn from there and do it better next time - there will always be a next time.

You cannot turn back the hands of the clock neither  can you fast forward it, you just have to use the time as it is now.

Stop playing the victim, it only gets you deeper into the pit

Man up to your situation

Life happens as it is meant to

Accept it and move on

You are brought into the World to be a victor

Go and be one

I am Dr. Jerry - the First

#oganononsense


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Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog is owned by Topitup Media And Communication Nigeria whose Team Head is Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

At Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog, we believe that life is a continuous process of learning, that successful people are continuous learners and that your success is completely dependent on you

About Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie is a Physician, an Author, a Writer, Thinker, Founder, Convener and Success Coaching addict. He is passionate about helping people become the best versions of themselves through coaching, mentoring, teaching, enlightening and enhancing their self worth. And the Platform he uses to reach out to people is his Ministry of Encouragement  (MoE). He has deep interests in Personal Development including mindset reset and habit change, Personal Finance, Wealth Creation, Health and Fitness. He believes that financial knowledge (literacy) combined with self - discipline is the key to achieving financial  freedom.

He is the author of The Practical Steps To Total Financial Freedom 



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Sunday, May 1, 2022

And May Just Arrived

 

And May Just Arrived

 


Hello, I am May and I just arrived your shores bringing you goodies.

I may not know just exactly what it is you want out of me but if you really know exactly what you want, if you are clear about it and have insight into it, you would find it in me to claim and make it yours.

Those are the first words I received in a letter from May to me and which I am sharing with you. I don't know if you did receive the same letter too BUT just in case you did not, well then you have the information already.

Whatever it is you want out of May, you would get it if you  have clarity and insight - those two are very important to get what you want.

Also in all thy getting in this month of May, get wisdom and understanding, they shall stand you in good stead when eventually you arrive.

Moreover,

Take  very good care of yourself. 

Eating healthy and staying active is a great way to stay connected to yourself and your higher power, whether that's God, the Universe, or simply your own internal guidance system.

When we allow our internal systems (physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual) to become clogged and bogged down by lethargy and unnatural substances, we block the opportunity for spiritual growth and eventual awakening.

Keep your body clean and clear by feeding it well and moving it often, and prepare to receive the messages you seek.

May this May be good to you in all ramifications

Amen

Happy New Month

Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

#successwithdrjerrythefirst


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Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog is owned by Topitup Media And Communication Nigeria whose Team Head is Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

At Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog, we believe that life is a continuous process of learning, that successful people are continuous learners and that your success is completely dependent on you

About Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie is a Physician, an Author, a Writer, Thinker, Founder, Convener and Success Coaching addict. He is passionate about helping people become the best versions of themselves through coaching, mentoring, teaching, enlightening and enhancing their self worth. And the Platform he uses to reach out to people is his Ministry of Encouragement  (MoE). He has deep interests in Personal Development including mindset reset and habit change, Personal Finance, Wealth Creation, Health and Fitness. He believes that financial knowledge (literacy) combined with self - discipline is the key to achieving financial  freedom.

He is the author of The Practical Steps To Total Financial Freedom 



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Tuesday, March 1, 2022

As We March Into MARCH

 

As We March Into MARCH

 


Hurray

A New Month is born today

The 3rd month of the year popularly called MARCH

It is not by your own power that you have marched into March, it is by the Divine Grace, Mercy and Power of the Almighty

All Thanksgiving must be given unto Him, Who Alone has wrought this great marvel for us.

And because He has our back, we shall not suffer lack, we shall be protected from the noisome pestilence, and from the poisoned arrows that flieth in the noon day. We shall have food to eat and water to drink, His Provisions shall be ubiquitous. His Abundance shall permeate into our lives even in this new month of March. He will curse whoever curses us and He would redirect every dangerous arrows thrown at us back to the senders.  Every tongue that shall rise up in judgement against us He shall cause to cleave to the roof of the mouth and every hand that is raised to strike us to death before our time, He shall cause to wither.

In this month of March, God shall surround us with His Goodness and we shall experience peace all around us. That peace which the World cannot give at the present times nor would ever be able to give.

As Children of promise, He has promised that He would protect and defend us and I know that He would do so because He values His Words even more than His Name.

As you march into March starting with this 1st day, keep your eyes wide open, glue your ears to the floor so that you can hear the heel of the ants as they go about their businesses and then choose what you say about any situation or anything at all, that is if you must say something, otherwise, just keep QUIET.

Beware of the ides of March

Happy New Month

God bless you real good

I'll see you again soon

Ciao

#successwithdrjerrythefirst


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Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog is owned by Topitup Media And Communication Nigeria whose Team Head is Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

At Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog, we believe that life is a continuous process of learning, that successful people are continuous learners and that your success is completely dependent on you

About Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie is a Physician, an Author, a Writer, Thinker, Founder, Convener and Success Coaching addict. He is passionate about helping people become the best versions of themselves through coaching, mentoring, teaching, enlightening and enhancing their self worth. And the Platform he uses to reach out to people is his Ministry of Encouragement  (MoE). He has deep interests in Personal Development including mindset reset and habit change, Personal Finance, Wealth Creation, Health and Fitness. He believes that financial knowledge (literacy) combined with self - discipline is the key to achieving financial  freedom.

He is the author of The Practical Steps To Total Financial Freedom 


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Monday, February 28, 2022

As February Ends

 

As February Ends



In the next couple of hours, the 2nd month of the year alias February will come to an end and thus join her sister January in the bin of history never to come this way again, this year.

The last day of the month is always a day to set time aside and do an introspective analysis - recall the goals that were set, determine if any was achieved, decide what aided the achievement, and if any goal was not achieved, also determine what caused the failure to achieve?

This analysis is very essential in order to know how to approach the incoming month.

The analysis provides lessons and insights into what was and what should have been so that in the new month we can leverage on what was, to build on what should have been, for the purposes of actualization.

The best thing you can do for yourself today is to sit down, take your journal and do the analysis.

It will help you tomorrow and then you would not forget to thank me very profusely.

I'll see you again soon

Ciao

#successwithdrjerrythefirst


About the Blog

Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog is owned by Topitup Media And Communication Nigeria whose Team Head is Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

At Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog, we believe that life is a continuous process of learning, that successful people are continuous learners and that your success is completely dependent on you

About Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie is a Physician, an Author, a Writer, Thinker, Founder, Convener and Success Coaching addict. He is passionate about helping people become the best versions of themselves through coaching, mentoring, teaching, enlightening and enhancing their self worth. And the Platform he uses to reach out to people is his Ministry of Encouragement  (MoE). He has deep interests in Personal Development including Mindset reset and habit change, Personal Finance, Wealth Creation, Health and Fitness. He believes that financial knowledge (literacy) combined with self - discipline is the key to achieving financial  freedom.

He is the author of The Practical Steps To Total Financial Freedom 


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Thursday, December 30, 2021

To Be Successful, You Don't Need A Degree.

 

To Be Successful, You Don't Need A Degree.

 


You've been taught your entire life by your parents, teachers, and coaches that you won't be successful unless you have a university degree, that you won't amount to anything unless you get high marks and keep your head in the books - kinda become a bookwormer.

This may have been true in the 1990s or even the early 2000s, but with the current state of education, prohibitive tuition costs, and high unemployment rates, our youth are being urged to consider alternatives to traditional tertiary education.

Despite your adolescent brainwashing, there are numerous reasons why you don't need a three-year varsity entrance, the first year of which is typically a haze and a waste of your parents' money, to build a name for yourself.

It must be recognized that there are at least two types of education - the Formal Education that involves a time frame of learning in a formal Institution to acquire a degree in an area the student may not even have an interest in and Informal Education which is mostly self-taught either by passing through the University of Hard Knocks which is also regarded as the University of Life Experiences or a trial and error process.

It was Robert Kiyosaki of the Rich Dad Poor Dad fame that stated that "formal education will make you a living but self education (informal education) will make you a fortune."

Many successful people/entrepreneurs without University or College degrees have done remarkable things, started remarkable businesses, and inspired and mentored even more remarkable people and enterprises, including celebrities Steve Jobs, Oprah Winfrey, Richard Branson, Michael Dell, and Steven Spielberg, as well as South African homegrown Lebo Gunguluza, USN's Albie Geldenhuis, Chicken Licken's George Sombonos, and Netflorist's Ryan Bacher, to name a few.

Because, let's face it, not everyone is cut out for university or college, shouldn't the concept of entrepreneurship be included in junior and senior high school curricula to foster and cultivate an entrepreneurial mindset in our youth so that they can consider starting their own businesses as a career option?

With unemployment at an all-time high, it's worth thinking about, especially because small businesses are the backbone of our economy. The government has made some progress, but not nearly enough to have a substantial influence.

Scooler | The School Entrepreneur Movement's founder, Leon Lategan, says,

"Many people, especially our youth, have a natural aptitude for entrepreneurship – day-to-day challenges, socio-economic issues, and difficult times naturally encourage a certain independence, a gift of the gab, and toughness – they are risk-takers and, whether they realize it or not, possess the key ingredients for successful entrepreneurship."

Lategan, a successful entrepreneur, university dropout, and graduate of the school of hard knocks, adds that this perseverance is exactly what has served him and other entrepreneurs throughout the world well, and will serve future young entrepreneurs well as well, combined with a strong work ethic:

"All they need is for these abilities, skills, and creativity to be awakened in them."

Yes, varsity or college can provide you with an education, but it is far from the sole option. In the end, you can be your own boss without a university or college degree. You can learn the basics to help you succeed as an entrepreneur, but you won't learn what it takes to be successful as your own boss there.

Whether you have a degree or not, you are in charge of your own career and destiny, as many entrepreneurs and self-made people have demonstrated.

Let me conclude with this powerful quote from Albert Einstein

“In the words of Albert Einstein: "Education is what remains after one has forgotten what one has learned in school.”

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Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog is owned by Topitup Media And Communication Nigeria whose Team Head is Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

At Success with Dr. Jerry - the First Blog, we believe that life is a continuous process of learning, that successful people are continuous learners and that your success is completely dependent on you

About Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie: JP

Dr. Jerry - the First Oguzie is a Physician, an Author, a Writer, Thinker, Founder, Convener and Success Coaching addict. He is passionate about helping people become the best versions of themselves through coaching, mentoring, teaching, enlightening and enhancing their self worth. And the Platform he uses to reach out to people is his Ministry of Encouragement  (MoE). He has deep interests in Personal Development including mindset reset and habit change, Personal Finance, Wealth Creation, Health and Fitness. He believes that financial knowledge (literacy) combined with self - discipline is the key to achieving financial  freedom.

He is the author of The Practical Steps To Total Financial Freedom


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