Because none of us will
live FOREVER in the physical, and we certainly can't take anything along with us when we die....
we don't have to be too thrifty.
Spend the money that should be spent, enjoy what
should be enjoyed, donate what you are able to donate, but don't leave all of
your hard earned wealth to your children or grandchildren, for you don't want
them to become parasites who are waiting for the day you will die!!
DON'T WORRY about what
will happen after you are gone, because when you return to dust, you will feel
nothing about, social praises, acceptances or criticisms. The time to enjoy the
life on this side of the divide and your hard earned wealth will be over and
soon like all other famous and non-famous beings NOBODY will be bothered about
you!
DON'T WORRY too much about
your children, for children will have their own destiny and should find their
own way. Don't be your children's slave. Care for them, love them, give them
gifts but also enjoy your money while you can. Life should have more to it than
working from the cradle to the grave!!
DON'T EXPECT too much from
your children. Ask yourself how much you care about your own parents... Caring
children, though caring, would be busy with their jobs and commitments to
render only OCCASIONAL help.
Uncaring children may
fight over your assets even when you are still alive, and wish for your early
demise so they can inherit your properties and wealth.
Your children take for
granted that they are rightful heirs to your wealth; but that you have
ABSOLUTELY NO claims to their money.
DON'T TRADE -in your
health for wealth, by working yourself to an early grave anymore. Because your
money may not be able to buy your health.
When to stop making money,
and how much MONEY IS enough ?
A hundred, thousand, One million, ten million, one billion... ?
Out of thousands of hectares of good farm land, you can consume only 1/4 kg of
rice daily.... ; out of 10 mansions, you only need 8 square meters of space to
rest at night.
So, as long as you have
enough food and enough money to spend, that is good enough. You should live
happily. Every family has its own problems.
Just DO NOT COMPARE with
others for fame and social status and see whose children are doing better etc.,
but challenge others for happiness, health, enjoyment, quality of life and
longevity.
DON'T WORRY about things that you can't change... age, height, weight,
colour..... because it doesn't help and it will DEFINITELY spoil your health to
an early GRAVE. .
You have to create your
own well-being and find your own place of happiness.
As long as you are in good
mood and good health, think about happy things, do happy things daily and have
fun in doing these things... then you will pass your time happily every day.
IF One day passes WITHOUT
happiness, you will lose one day.
IF One day passes WITH happiness, then you WILL gain an additional one day.
In good spirit, sickness
will be cured;
In a happy spirit, sickness will be cured faster;
In high and happy spirits,
sickness will never come to you.
With good mood and
suitable amount of exercise, always out in the sun, eating a variety of foods,
reasonable amounts of vitamins and minerals intake, hopefully you will live
another additional 20 to 30 years of a healthy life of fun and pleasure.
- ABOVE ALL -
Learn to cherish the goodness around you.. and the good FRIENDS you have......
They all make you feel young and "wanted"... without them you will
surely feel lost!!!!
Wishing you all the best for the years to come.
Response Magic 
