As Twitter Transits

As Twitter transits, here's the man taking over

By July 1 Jack Dorsey would be taking over Dick Costolo as the interim CEO of Twitter

Here are some pictures of the incoming CEO

Happy Fathers' Day

It's the International Day for Men popularly called Fathers' Day

I got this message from my son and I want to share it with all Fathers out there as we celebrate

"Anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a Dad, and

that's why I call you Dad, because you are so special to me.

You taught me the game and you taught me how to play it right.

Having you as a Father has been, without a doubt, my greatest source of achievement, pride and inspiration.

From your shining example of fatherhood I have learnt about unconditional love, the importance of giving back has been reinforced in me and I have been taught to be a better person

I want to congratulate all the men out there who are working diligently to be good fathers whether they are stepfathers, or biological fathers or just spiritual fathers

I am far away home but the emotional feelings are there, it took hours to contemplate and write this mail but I just have to let you know that you are special to my heart

Happy fathers' day Daddy"

I love you Daddy

You are my Hero

I love you Daddy, oh Daddy

You are my Superstar

And you're always on my mind

I love you Daddy

My Daddy, my Daddy

You are my Hero

My Hero, my Hero

I love you Daddy, oh Daddy

You are my Number One

And you're always on my mind

10 Things You Don't Owe Anyone Even When You Think You Do

Other people will always want to advise you on how to do things. It’s in their nature! However, no matter how big or small, what you are doing is really none else’s business but your own and for that you never need to explain yourself to anyone. In order to be able to move forward though and chase after your dreams,it’s important to understand that you are the one person responsible for your life and no one else. You can’t be held back by giving too much attention to what other people think or say.

To help you out, here’s a list of the 10 things you don’t owe anyone even when you think you do:

1. An explanation of your life priorities

Wherever you are in life, no one is allowed to tell you what you need to do. 

Let’s not confuse this with giving advice though. 

Everyone has their own beliefs and views on the world so their opinion might be entirely different to yours. It’s okay to be open to suggestions, but you are not required to give an explanation for what you regard as your priorities in life. 

Perhaps you want to travel and see the world before you finally settle down, or you’ve decided you want to become a parent in your 20s. 

Either way it’s your choice to make.

2.An apology if it's not genuine

You don’t owe an apology if it feels forced.

No matter how things ended with your partner or friend, you don’t have to apologize if you are not sorry. 

First you need to get rid of the anger inside you and resolve the issue in your mind before you go off admitting to something even if it wasn't your fault.

3. A reason to be alone

Everybody wants to spend some quality time alone once in a while, and there’s no shame in admitting that. 

This by any means doesn’t make you rude or anti-social. 

The same applies if you’ve chosen to just stay alone for a while by not getting involved in a romantic relationship. 

If you don’t ever want to get married, for example, it’s your call to make, and other people need to respect that.

4. Your time

You need to understand that you don’t have to do things you don’t want to. 

For example, you don’t owe anyone a date just because they’ve asked you out. 

You have the right to say no and should refuse if you don’t feel like going without feeling guilty about it or worry about the consequences.

5. An explanation of how you live your life

No one has the right to judge how you are living your life, and you certainly don't need to explain yourself. 

Whether you are living in an RUV or you are still staying with your parents and you are past your 20s, it doesn’t matter because you have your own reasons for doing that.

6. Agreeing with someone else’s personal beliefs

If you feel strongly opposed to someone’s beliefs then you don’t have to agree with them. 

When you find yourself in the middle of a disagreement, it’s important to stand your ground and defend your opinion without getting aggressive. 

Just because you want to get on well with someone doesn’t mean that you have to comply with whatever they say or believe in. 

7. An explanation for your physical appearance

So you’ve decided to dye your hair purple and paint your nails black. 

You’ve grown your beard, got dreadlocks and pierced your nose. 

That’s ok unless you are under 18 years-old, or you’ve got a big interview coming up. 

If that’s not the case, you don't need to explain why you decided to change your appearance. 

Let the haters hate; they’ll get over it at some point.

8. An explanation for your sex life

You don’t have to explain your sexual preferences to anybody. 

People might judge who you sleep with, but your sexuality is really none of their business. 

As long as it involves another consenting adult, and you are okay with it, nothing else matters.

9. An explanation for your career choices

If you are a workaholic or an entrepreneur who has a lot on their plate, you might have to work twelve hours a day instead of eight. 

As a result, you may be neglecting your personal and social life, missing out on spending valuable moments with your family and friends. 

Whatever you choose, however, is your decision and if it works with your life goals you don't have to explain yourself to anyone.

10. An explanation for your relationship choices

Everyone who cares about you is going to have their say about your romantic relationship(s). 

They might say that you and your partner are not a good fit, and you should find someone else. 

Even though their advice is welcome, it shouldn’t determine how you feel about your partner and you definitely don’t have to explain why you choose to leave or stay in that relationship.

Essentially there is only one possible conclusion to this. 

There is no reason to do something unless it makes you happy. 

The secret to living a full and happy life is to free yourself from the obligation to explain how you live your life. 

If there’s anything you don’t want to do, follow your instincts and don't do it. 

Once you realize you don’t owe anyone an explanation, you will start to be truly happy.

http://www.careeraddict.com/20587/10-things-you-don-t-owe-anyone-even-when-you-think-you-do 

THURSDAY                                                                              26. 09. 13

Greetings to all my people.

It is my good hope that you all woke up healthy and wise, all thanks be to God on High.

It’s a Thursday, and the week is heading to an end. Just yesterday it was September 1 but today it is 26^th and the days are hastening on.

How far have you gone with your plans for the year?

How many of those resolutions you made at the beginning of the year have you kept?

If your plan for this year included to make some more money, an opportunity presents itself now – THE REALITY CLUB INTERNATIONAL – HEALTHY LIFE NETWORK.

It is a multi level marketing business that deals with only a single product SOYAPLUS which is a fermented and detoxified product of soya beans,

Soyaplus is rich in the essential amino acids, omega 3 fatty acid, isoflavones, minerals and micro nutrients.

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It is good for health and has very trememdous beneficial effects on diabetics, hypertensive’s, HIV positive persons, Malnourished children, post menopausal women e.t.c.

Vegetarians would also find it quite useful

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Have a fun filled day

Bless and be blessed

Ambassador

Hey! It's Sunday

HEY

It's SUNDAY

The first day of the Christian week.

A replacement for the Sabbath of old and therefore a day of rest

But we do every other thing other but rest on this day

But first, go to church and ensure that you pray not only for yourself but for SOMEBODY else.

Knock on HEAVEN's GATE for someone else

For a moment, just forget about yourself and your myriad of challenges

Lift someone up before the Lord

Let God's love flow to someone because you PRAYED for them 

And surely a thank you is waiting for you

Let someone be able to say for your sake, God lifted me up

The reward is exceedingly above our expectation.

So today, go to CHURCH

God bless you abundantly

#DrJTF

The Man To Be CEO

A successful business man was growing old and knew it was time to choose a successor to take over the business.

Instead of choosing one of his Directors or his children, he decided to do something different. 

He called all the young executives in his company together.

He said, "It is time for me to step down and choose the next CEO. I have decided to choose one of you. "The young

executives were Shocked, but the boss continued. "I am going to give each one of you a SEED today - one very special SEED. I want you to plant the seed, water it, and come back here one year from today with what you have grown from the seed I have given you.

"I will then judge the plants that you bring, and the one I choose will be the next CEO." 

One man, named Jim, was there that day and he, like the others, received a seed. He went home and excitedly, told his wife the story. She helped him get a pot, soil and compost and he planted the seed.

Everyday, he would water it and watch to see if it had grown. After about three weeks, some of the other executives began to talk about their seeds and the plants that were beginning to grow.

Jim kept checking his seed, but nothing ever grew. Three weeks, four weeks, five weeks went by, still nothing.

By now, others were talking about their plants, but Jim didn't have a plant and he felt like a failure. Six months went by -- still nothing in Jim's pot. He just knew he had killed his seed.

Everyone else had trees and tall plants, but he had nothing.

Jim didn't say anything to his colleagues, however, he just kept watering and fertilizing the soil - He so wanted the

seed to grow.

A year finally went by and all the young executives of the company brought their plants to the CEO for inspection.

Jim told his wife that he wasn't going to take an empty pot.

But she asked him to be honest about what happened. Jim felt sick to his stomach, it was going to be the most embarrassing

moment of his life, but he knew his wife was right. He took his empty pot to the board room. When Jim arrived, he was

amazed at the variety of plants grown by the other executives. 

They were beautiful -- in all shapes and sizes. Jim put his empty pot on the floor and many of his colleagues laughed, a few felt sorry for him!

When the CEO arrived, he surveyed the room and greeted his young executives. Jim just tried to hide in the back. "My,

what great plants, trees and flowers you have grown," said the CEO. 

"Today one of you will be appointed the next CEO!"

All of a sudden, the CEO spotted Jim at the back of the room with his empty pot. He ordered the Financial Director to

bring him to the front. Jim was terrified. He thought, "The CEO knows I'm a failure! Maybe he will have me fired!"

When Jim got to the front, the CEO asked him what had happened to his seed - Jim told him the story.

The CEO asked everyone to sit down except Jim. He looked at Jim, and then announced to the young executives,

"Behold your next Chief Executive Officer!

His name is Jim!" Jim couldn't believe it. Jim couldn't even grow his seed. "How could he be the new CEO?" the others said.

Then the CEO said, "One year ago today, I gave everyone in this room a seed. I told you to take the seed, plant it, water

it, and bring it back to me today. 

But I gave you all boiled seeds; they were dead it was not possible for them to grow.

All of you, except Jim, have brought me trees and plants and flowers.

When you found that the seed would not grow, you substituted another seed for the one I gave you. Jim was the

only one with the courage and honesty to bring me a pot with my seed in it. Therefore, he is the one who will be the

new Chief Executive Officer!"

* If you plant honesty, you will reap trust 

* If you plant goodness, you will reap friends 

* If you plant humility, you will reap greatness

* If you plant perseverance, you will reap contentment 

* If you plant consideration, you will reap perspective 

* If you plant hard work, you will reap success 

* If you plant forgiveness, you will reap reconciliation 

So, be careful what you plant now; it will determine what you will reap later.

Think about this for a minute....

Do you know what the Relationship is between your two eyes? 

They blink together, they move together, they cry together, they see things together, and they sleep together,

but they never see each other; ....that's what friendship is..

Your aspiration is your motivation, 

your motivation is your belief, 

your belief is your peace, 

your peace is your target,

your target is heaven,

and life is like hard core torture without it! 

Live a sincere Life! 

It pays! 

God bless!

6 Things That Happy People Avoid Like The Plague

 Happiness is a choice that everyone can make in their lifetime.

The key to happiness is simply in the way you view yourself and the world around you.

There are millions of people who are truly happy while there are others who create obstacles that prevent them from achieving happiness.

Happy people have habits that keep them happy while the unhappy people remain depressed. Below is a list of the 6 things happy people avoid doing.

1. Thinking Negatively

Unhappy people turn a blind eye to all the right things in the world and only focus on the wrong.

They can easily be spotted from miles away.

People who think negatively always end up being depressed and unhappy.

They are the miserable people who always complain about anything and everything and are always expecting negative outcomes.

Happy people are optimistic people who always view the glass as half full and are always looking for more in their lives.

They know the problems our world faces but keep an eye on the positives.

Bad things and good things happen, and happy people know that good and bad things are a way of the world.

Happy people are well aware of the global issues, but only choose to see what is right.

When bad things happen, fix it, and focus on the good things around you.

When you think positively, you experience happiness.

2. Blaming Other People

Unhappy people always blame other people when things go wrong and believe that they are the reason for their misery.

They lack confidence in people and believe that other people cannot be trusted.

They believe that there is not enough fortune to be shared, and people are always stealing from their own.

Blaming other people is psychologically disempowering and is the easiest way to unhappiness.

Blaming people causes misery and creates a circle of despair.

To be happy, you need to take personal responsibility even when the problems may be caused by someone else.

Happy people believe in trusting their fellow men and know that no one is out to get them.

They know that they possess a blueprint that cannot be taken away from them by anyone.

They are aware of the infinite possibilities and take daily steps to achieve their goals.

Happy people are focused on their ability and manage their lives and their happiness effectively.

They focus on their options even when the outside forces are closing up on them.

3. Seeking Revenge

 Holding on to resentment only intensifies one’s misery and sadness.

Seeking revenge creates resentment that eats up people from the inside causing stress and depression.

Unhappy people harbor the evil feelings of revenge and can never rise above them.

The past always remains the past for a reason.

There is a special feeling of freedom when you let go of the anger and give up on seeking revenge.

Happy people know that seeking revenge will never bring them the happiness they desire.

They may be deeply hurt, but they never try to avenge.

Happy people always make peace, forgive and move on with their lives.

When you learn to forgive, you enjoy a unique type of freedom and let go of the past.

To be happy, you must make peace with the past and focus entirely on the future.

Rise above revenge, live that up to karma and create your own happiness.

4. Giving Up

Unhappy people give up simply when the effort they are putting into something does not lead to the expected results.

They put in a limited effort to help themselves and constantly see themselves as victims of life.

They have negative attitudes and can never find their way through to the other side.

If you are constantly doing easy things and wishing that things were different, and you are not putting in enough effort, you are heading to failure and unhappiness.

Always dream and hope and create your way out of any situation.

Pull yourself together and look for a solution.

Happy people know that life is hard and bounce through tough times with their heads held high.

They persevere towards problem-solving, get themselves out of the mess and never consider themselves as victims.

Accomplish the goals you have set without relenting and you will enhance your happiness.

Failure is temporary.

Get up and try again.

5. Gossiping

Miserable people live in the past and make their misery a topic of conversation.

They engage in the petty behavior of gossiping once they have run out of words to express their unhappiness.

People who gossip are those whose lives are not fulfilling making them pathetic and jealous.

They seek to find faults in others so as to feel better. Negative talk only leads to further misery and unhappiness.

There is no reason for a happy person to gossip about someone or act jealous towards others.

Happy people are content with themselves, want to improve and always ignore the societal pressure.

They never compare themselves to others and take pleasure in celebrating the success of others.

You can only feel positive vibes from across the rooms of happy people.

Always think before you speak and if you have nothing good to say, do not

say anything at all.

6. Having Expectations

Unrealistic expectations most often set us up for painful disappointments.

People face the big challenge of learning to accept people just as they are. Expectation is a very big word that is quite hard and static.

When constantly expecting others to be in a specific way, we are regularly disappointed and unhappy.

Happy people go into situations having open minds without any pressure of living up to the preconceived expectations.

They know their value and do not look up to other people to confirm their self-worth.

View life optimistically but always leave room for other outcomes and it may just turn out to be way better than you hoped for.

You are more than capable of creating your own happiness, therefore, look within yourself and never at others to be happy.

Regardless of the outcome, stay in the present and let life run its course.

http://www.fitwellnews.com/2015/05/6-things-that-happy-people-avoid