31 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know."

Norman Vincent Pearl wrote the book "The Power of Positive Thinking", if you have not read it, then I advise you.

Moreover join us as we start a 10-Day Negative Thought Fast on the 1st of December, and watch your life take a turn for the better

Life Secret and Tip:

" Read “Bringers of Light” and “Conversations with God” by Neale Donald Walsch.

These books will help you decide what you want to do in this life and how to get to that point. They will also profoundly change the way you look at the purpose of existence. Read them!”

Hurray!!! - November Is Ending Today

Hello my friends,

I am so happy to see the last day of the 11th month of the year 2015; this is an evidence that God has been so gracious to me and mine and we shall continually praise His Holy Name for ever and ever - Amen

It's the month end, though the commencement of a new week.

How has the month treated you?

Are you taking stock now?

Are there some things you planned to do but yet to do?

or some programs you planned to organize but failed to?

Well, each month comes with its own challenges, and am sure November was no different.

But whatever be the case, November is on its way out now and there's nothing anyone can do to hold it back.

Whether we like it or yes, by 12 midnight today, November would have transited, giving way to December.

God shall keep all of us alive and well to witness not only the beginning of the last month of this year, but also the end of it and the end of many more years to come.

Keep hope alive man

God is still at work

Enjoy this day, whatever it brings

Cheers to a great day

Dr. Jerry - the First: JP

#DrJTF

10 - Day Negative Thought Fast

Hi

I want to share with you a very simple and easy but powerful exercise that will help you to change your life.

It is the 10-Day Negative Thought Fast

From the 1st to the 10th of December 2015, we are embarking on a Negative Thought Fast, meaning that for those 10 days, we shall not allow any Negative Thought to dwell within our minds for more than 5 seconds and definitely we shall not make any Negative Remarks or Comments within the period.

We are in search of 20 persons to make up the G21 (Group of 21 persons) willing to move their lives to the next level through participating the 10-Day Negative Thought Fast

If you feel that your life is becoming burdensome, then you are a good candidate for this exercise.

Are you interested?

Then indicate your Name, Location, Email Address and Phone Number on the blog (drop in the comment section) and we shall contact you there-after because the exercise will kick off exactly by 12 midnight of Tuesday 1st December 2015.

Remember we are looking for only 20 persons and so the earlier you drop your details, the quicker it will be to add you to the list

As soon as we hit the number, we shall share the Rules for the Exercise

See you on the inside of the G21

Dr. Jerry - the First: JP

#DrJTF

Marriage Is Not About All These Things -- Must Read

A Man's Advice To His Son Searching For A Wife

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you.

Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock or breast but worry about the size of her heart and brain.

Worry about the size of her love and endurance. 

Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock.

As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still loves me. 

Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, clothes, shoes, bags panties and make-ups. 

Marriage is not all about these things. 

Without make-up, clothes, shoes and panties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand. 

When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even educated. But I had dreams and she appreciated and supported me. 

Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a-minute about. 

There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one.

My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. 

I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away. 

One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. 

If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away!

Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful. 

Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see!

No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone then don’t let her go.

But remember, you must not be a wayward man. I have 

trained you!

If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage!

I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you my advice. When you find her, bring her for my blessings. 

May you find a woman that will increase you not decrease you in Jesus.

32 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Be romantic."

Romance surely makes the world go round

Life Secret and Tip:

" Sleep less.

Fully adjusting to a new sleep cycle can take up to 21 days so don’t give up if you feel tired after switching to 5-hour nights. The “required” 8 hour/night is for normal people. If you’re reading THIS article on THIS site, you are not normal. So figure out how much sleep YOU really need and adjust accordingly. As enjoyable as sleep is, waking existence is much more fulfilling and efficient. IF this really sparks your interest, check out alternate sleep cycles with which you can be fine off of 2 hours of sleep per day.”

It's Sunday

I praise You God

You are God from the ages past

There is none like You

I worship You Lord

Because Thou remaineth the same

from age to age

What You did at creation

You are still doing even up until now

How you quickened the body of Adam by breathing into him the breath of life

You are still doing for us who believe in You

I bring You Glory, Honour, Power, Majesty, Dominion and Thanksgiving for Your Mercy and Grace to me and mine, in bringing us back to life this morning.

Thank You Lord

Alleluia is our song

Friends

I am certainly convinced that God brought you back to life today

Let us honour and thank Him for His Goodness

It's a Sunday

Let's go worship Him like never before

Have a pleasant Sunday

#DrJTF

The Real Deal

To:     All Husbands and Husbands in waiting

Things you should really know about your wives and your wives in waiting

Here:

“Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

Love her…when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Heaven.

Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.

Love her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you.

Love her…when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her…when she looks disheveled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.

Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.

Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.

Love her…when she looks beautiful. She's yours so appreciate her.

Love her...when she spends hours to get ready. She only wants to look her best for you.

Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.

Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.

Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her it’s going to be okay.

Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (this works!).

Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass.

Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new shirt anyway.

Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both.

Love her…she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!

33 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Give people a second chance, but not a third."

Sure we all deserve a second chance, don't we?

but men, if you missed it a second time, then sorry but there can no other chance. So take your chances as they come.

Life Secret and Tip:

" Be honest at all times.

Lies lead to nothing but trouble. Being known as trustworthy is an excellent trait to maintain and essential to having integrity”

34 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" When playing games with children, let them win"

Oh yes, this helps them to develop a sense of healthy competition and also develop confidence in themselves

Life Secret and Tip:

" Set aside a specific time to worry each day.

Ponder all of your problems and anxieties during that time so that they will not distract you during work or moments of pleasure. This way you can be extremely efficient with your time and avoid focusing on negative things as much as possible. If you get all of your worry out of the way and have the mental fortitude to keep from reverting back to them, you will be much happier on the daily”

35 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

"Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have."

Even when there is no reason to be hopeful yet hope is the last asset anyone possesses in this world that tends to leave people more hopeless than hopeful. Deprive no one of his or her hope, that may be his or her last resort

Life Secret and Tip:

" Help others.

I’ll just give you a plethora of reasons why this is a MUST

Helping people has a ripple effect. If you help someone they will feel more obliged to help someone else, and so on. Pay it forward

You grow by giving and helping others. It can change you in ways you never expected

Your relationship with that person will become stronger

It’s the most fulfilling thing you can do on this planet. It not only feels amazing physically, you also feel like a good person

You might be able to call in a favor later when you need some help

Karma (if you believe in it)

Because there are more people in this world than just you”

36 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Lend only those books you never care to see again."

Books are eternal possessions because they are passed on from Generation to Generation; so treasure your books.

Life Secret and Tip:

" Get in the sun.

Superman was completely re-energized when he flew out to space and soaked in some rays and you can do the same right outside your front door (if you live in a constantly dreary place, my apologies). The sun feels amazing: your entire body will be coursing with warmth and life.”

37 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

"Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out."

There is a reward for every good deed and the best of them all comes from Providence. Let your left hand not be aware of what your right hand has done when it comes to giving and doing things for those unable to pay you back

Life Secret and Tip:

"  Read books.

Knowledge is power. If you’re looking for some mind-blowing books to read, check out ‘8 Books That Will Violent Shift Your Perspective’.”

4 Ways To Boost Your Finances By Boosting Your Attitude

Far too often, we allow our actions to be ruled by our emotions. It's a fact: negative thoughts and feelings have a detrimental effect on every aspect of our lives, from family to our work and social lives.

What would things be like if we transformed negative thoughts into positive ones? 

Changing how we feel about ourselves can truly change our direction in life!

Living in the present and having a positive outlook about our future can help us reach goals we once thought were impossible.

Having a brighter outlook on life can open our eyes to more possibilities and encourage us to move in new and exciting directions. 

How can you attain a better outlook on life? It all has to do with the way you see yourself. Having a positive and outgoing attitude is the key to changing your self-concept, boosting your income, and improving your life.

Here are some techniques you can use to boost your attitude: 

1. Get control.

Figure out the things that make you unhappy and find ways to change them for the better. A positive outlook can change everything in your life – you just need to believe in yourself first.

Loving yourself is the only way you're going to allow others to see you in a positive light as well. If you project negativity, you'll be viewed as a negative person.

Realising you can't control how others think and feel about you is critical to getting control of yourself.

You have the power to work on ways to make yourself happy. Avoid doing something for the sole purpose of making someone else happy. It must be about you. This isn't about being selfish; it's about being true to you. 

2. Change the way you think.

Negative thoughts beget negative actions.

Make a conscious effort to change the way you react and deal with situations.

Look for the silver lining instead of focusing on the negative attributes of situations and people.

If you think positively, you'll act positively. Those positive thoughts and actions will keep many anxieties at bay. Through positive thoughts and actions, anything can become a reality. 

Listen Up Someone

God is speaking to you and He says:

I know what that medical report has said, it has confined you to the depth of hopelessness and despair, preparing you to stew in your own helplessness

I know what your Bank Account Officer said to you the last time you made a withdrawal, he told you that you have reached the maximum limit of withdrawal unless you want to close the account the next time you come to withdraw

I know what the economy of your Country is saying to you, that in the next couple of months, it shall go into a depression, this has got you worried beyond your usual boisterous person

But you need to hear this

I am the Lord that healeth thee and I am raising my Right Hand of Healing and Justice to declare you free from any form of ailment

There are many things that money cannot buy and I give them to you for free; look unto Me for your utmost satisfaction.

The economies of the world and that of individuals are in My Able Hands and even though nations decrease but you shall INCREASE, while the economies of the Countries of the world go into depression, your personal economy shall remain buoyant .

The Lord has spoken

Did someone hear??

Remain blessed

Dr. Jerry - the First: JP

#DrJTF

My Redeemer, My Comforter, My Master

There is only but One True God, all other gods are the contraptions of the hands of men and that One True God is my GOD.

He is the One that holds me in the Hollow of His Palms and nothing shall by any means prize me away from Him.

He is my Redeemer, my Comforter, My God in Whom I run into when the vicissitudes of life come knocking because as a matter of necessity, they must.

I asked Him to keep me safe and sound as I laid down my head on the pillow, and just right now, He tapped me back to life.

I asked Him to keep my family (immediate and extended) in good health, safe and sound through the night trip, and He not only did that, He added an extra for me by keeping my friends safe and sound too.

Thank You Lord for Your Grace and Mercy

What can I ever do without You

Onye nwem jide nga I ji  o o o o o

Today is Tuesday my good friends, in 6 days time this month would end, but don't allow it to end without making a mark, you can, just DO IT

Have a wonderful day today

Dr. Jerry - the First: JP

#DrJTF

38 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery"

For if you marry a good person, you would be happy all the days of your life but if you marry a bad person, you would be forced to become a Philosopher

Life Secret and Tip:

"  Think positive thoughts.

When you find yourself thinking a negative thought, stop it immediately by any means necessary. Slap yourself in the face, yell something positive at the top of your lungs or jump up and down. Do whatever it takes to get back to a positive mindset as such is essential for continual happiness and success..”

From Nobody To Somebody - The Story Of Sylvester Stallone

If you think that God is no longer in control of the affairs of men, then you have another think coming.

The story you are about to read is an eloquent evidence that God has not changed!!!

Sylvester Stallone!!!, you must heard his name several times, watched his block busters several times but did you know that Sylvester was so broke that he was found sleeping in the streets until ......

This is one of the SWEETEST stories ever told in Hollywood. His name is Sylvester Stallone, one of the BIGGEST and most famous American movie superstars.

Back in the day, Stallone was a struggling actor in every definition. At some point, he got so broke that he stole his wife's jewellery and sold it.

Things got so bad that he even ended up homeless. Yes, he slept at

the New York bus station for 3 days. Unable to pay rent or afford food.

His lowest point came when he tried to sell his dog at the liquor store to any stranger. He didn't have money to feed the dog anymore. He sold it at $25 only. He says he walked away crying.

Two weeks later, he saw a boxing match between Mohammed Ali and Chuck Wepner and that match gave him the inspiration to write the script for the famous movie, ROCKY.

He wrote the script for 20 hours!

He tried to sell it and got an offer for $125,000 for the script. But he had just ONE REQUEST. He wanted to STAR in the movie. He wanted to be the MAIN ACTOR. Rocky himself.

But the studio said NO.

They wanted a REAL STAR.

They said he "Looked funny and talked funny". He left with his script. A few weeks later, the studio offered him $250,000 for the script. He refused. They even offered $350,000. He still refused. They wanted his movie. But NOT him. He said NO. He had to be IN THAT MOVIE.

After a while, the studio agreed, gave him $35,000 for the script and let him star in it! The rest is history!

The movie won Best Picture, Best Directing and Best Film Editing at the prestigious Oscar Awards. He was even nominated for BEST ACTOR! The Movie ROCKY was even inducted into the American National Film Registry as one of the greatest movies ever!

And Sylvester has gone ahead to perform in so many other films and movies and sometimes even naming his own fee

Is that not the Hand of God?

And do you know the first thing he bought with the

$35,000? THE DOG HE SOLD.

Yes, Stallone LOVED HIS DOG SO MUCH that he stood at the liquor store for 3 days waiting for the man he sold his dog to.

And on the 3rd day, he saw the man coming with the dog. Stallone explained why he sold the dog and begged for the dog back. The man refused. Stallone offered him $100. The man refused. He offered him $500. And the guy refused. Yes, he refused even $1000.

And, believe it or not, Stallone had to pay $15,000 for the same, same dog he sold at $25 only! And he finally got his dog back!

And today, the same Stallone who slept in the streets and sold his dog JUST BECAUSE he couldn't even feed it anymore, is one of the GREATEST movie stars who ever walked the earth!

So, what is your challenge?

Have you ever been so hungry that you thought of eating sand, don't go there; inside of you reposes a giant, wake your giant up

God is still at work directing the feet steps of His children

#DrJTF

39 Days To End Of Year

School of Life piece of advise:

" Avoid sarcastic remarks "

We have a way of wanting to pay back to the one who has hurt us by "killing" them with our words, but it is important to remember that "what goes round surely comes around"

Life Secret and Tip:

"  Don’t take life so seriously!

Learn to laugh at the little things and this whole “existence” thing will be a whole lot easier. Be amused by your mistakes and failures and be thankful that you learned your lesson and won’t mess up like that again. And most importantly do things that you enjoy! Life is not strictly business, it can be mixed with pleasure.”

10 Wonderful Benefits Of Meditation

Meditation has existed for thousands of years, but it's never been more popular than it is right now.Meditation provides many health and personal benefits. Meditation is simple, free, and can be done anywhere. It's well worth your effort.

There are numerous reasons to include meditation in your daily life:

1. Boost your health. Regular meditation decreases inflammation, improves immune function, decreases pain, and actually adds grey matter to your brain.

2. Enhance self-control and the ability to regulate emotions. Do you currently have poor impulse control? Do you get upset easily? Meditation can help. Whether you struggle to stick with your diet or control your temper, meditation is beneficial.

3. Slow aging. Cognitive function is better preserved in those that meditate every day.

Though it hasn't been proven conclusively, it appears likely that meditation can lengthen your lifespan.

4. Improve memory and attention. If you can't remember where you left your car keys, regular meditation might be the answer. It can also increase your ability to concentrate. The ability to stay focused is considered a marker for success.

5. Learn to be more present. Let go of the past and the future. Meditation is all about keeping your mind in the present moment. You'll feel a sense of relief and great peace.

You can use this skill throughout the day to enjoy your life and accomplish more. You'll daydream and worry less. Your productivity will soar.