Before you speak, ask
yourself this all important question "What I am about to say, is it true
or not true?"
So think it out the answer
If it is TRUE, consider if
it is beneficial or not beneficial to the receiver
consider also if it is the
right TIME to say what it is that is true to be said.
If you consider it
BENEFICIAL to the receiver, go further to brainstorm within yourself and know
if it is the right time to say it to the Receiver, will it be ACCEPTED by him
or her or NOT ACCEPTED
If you think that the time
is right and that what you have to say would be accepted, then go ahead and
SPEAK.
However if you think
otherwise, then hold your peace for the moment and speak only at the right
time.
If it is true but NOT
BENEFICIAL then don't speak
AND if what you want to
say is NOT TRUE, then don't even open your mouth to speak at all
Do this and you would be
in the good books of many a friend
Top of the day to you
Cheers
Dr. Jerry - the First: JP
#DrJTF
I love those tips doctor
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