Saturday, August 19, 2017

24 Self Development Tips

1. Make friends with successful people and occasionally buy them gifts and surprise them with lunch because successful people always give and hardly get, so when you give them, they value the gift a lot.

2. Get a mentor and follow his instructions and respect the relationship. Never beg your mentor for money or disrespect his or her privacy.

3. Make new positive friends as often as possible and ensure you keep the communication line open. Create a network of friends and not just connections.

5. Show kindness to everyone. Some small boys today will be big boys tomorrow. The biggest dog in the neighbourhood was once a puppy. Keep the information/secret to yourself.

6. Always plan ahead and be proactive. He that plans the future works less in the future.

7. Listen to speeches and messages from great teachers, both religious and educational.

8. Attend seminars and trainings on any area you need to improve yourself - Train the trainer, personal development, public speaking, sales etc.

9. Have the habit of keeping a pen and a writing pad handy because ideas come in the form of flashes. The smallest pen is bigger and better than the biggest brain.

10. Make sure at every point in time you are reading a book. If you spend 20 minutes reading daily, for 52 weeks you would have consumed 1,000,000 words.

11.Stay away from television as much as possible. You can watch educational channels. Men with big TV sit in front of them to watch men with big libraries.

12 Put control over your mouth; never say evil of any man; what you are not certain of should not be said. Say good of all men.

13. Always show appreciation for any good deed you received.

14. Always help someone in need.

15. Live a debt free life. What you can’t pay cash for is not your size.

16. Give out loans that you can part with as gift, so that you don’t destroy your business and relationship.

17. Create legitimate multiple sources of income.

18. Save at least 10 percent of your income.

19. Invest a portion of your income, and be patient to see it grow. If what you have in your hands is not good to be called a harvest then it’s a seed; sow it.

20. Keep a good financial record of all income and expenses, so you won’t ask later “where did my money go”

21. Be involved in community service- Control traffic, free lesson class for students etc.

22. Keep getting better on your daily goals and dream, develop yourself on them and make sure you get to the top 10 % of your industry.

23. Make sure you engage in physical exercise. It keeps your brain alert and your body fit to enjoy your success.

24. Pray often, and know that for every success, God made it possible.

Wishing you the very best in life. Practice what you just read, and see the difference your life would record in 2 years.

Amazing Fun Facts Of Life

+ A person cannot fold a piece of paper in half more than 8 times.

+ There are just over 300 million cell phones used daily in the United States alone.

+ A shrimp's heart is in its head.

+ Natural pearls will melt in vinegar.

+An olive tree can live up to 1500 years.

+ Cleopatra married two of her brothers.

+Ants can't shut their eyes.

+On a Canadian two dollar bill, the flag flying over the Parliament Building looks like an American flag.

+Men's shirts have the buttons on the right, while women shirts have the buttons on the left.

+Chewing gum will help reduce tears when cutting an onion.

+The day after thanksgiving is the busiest day for plumbers in the U.S.

+Coffee beans are not beans at all, rather fruit pits.

+Fortune cookies were invented in America in 1918, by Charles Jung.

+Scuba divers cannot pass gas at depth deeper than 33 feet.

+The Mona Lisa has no eyebrows. It was the fashion then, to shave them off.

+The average American consumes enough caffeine in one year to kill a horse.

+A giraffe can clean its ears with its 50 cm (20 in) tongue

+The pig is rated the fourth most intelligent animal but are mentioned only twice in Bible

+Sharks are immune to all known diseases

+The majority of suicides occur on a Monday.- It is a fact, everyone HATES Mondays.

+The most children born to one woman was 69, she was a peasant who lived a 40 year life, in which she had 16 twins, 7 triplets, and 4 quadruplets - now that's a lot of babies!

+If you keep a goldfish in the dark, it will eventually turn white.

+On average, people who use their right hand live 9 years longer than people who use their left.

+The ant can lift 50 times its own weight, can pull 30 times its own weight and always falls over on its right side when intoxicated.

+It is physically impossible for you to lick your elbow.

+Walt Disney was afraid of mice.

+A snail can sleep for three years.


Ten Toxic People To Chase Out Of Your Life

Whether we realize this or not, the people we spend our time with play a huge role in the quality of our happiness, health, and well-being.

And if we surround ourselves with all kind of toxic people, we risk losing ourselves and our path in life as a result of the poison that continues to be spread in our mind, body, and soul as a result of our interactions with these people.
The first step toward removing toxic people from your life is to identify them.

And hopefully, after reading this list of 10 types of toxic people you should stay away from, you will take the necessary steps to help you move in that direction.

Opinion givers are those toxic people who are always quick to share their sneaky and poisonous thoughts with you on topics that are sensitive to you.

Oh, look at you. You look so fat. Have you gained weight?

Remember when you did that thing and made you look stupid?

Are you really going to date that guy? He is such a loser… And on and on they go.

Even if you never ask for their advice and opinions, they will make sure you hear what they have to say. And if you watch them closely as they share their “valuable insights”, you will notice this smirk on the face.

These toxic people feed with the pain of their victims and take great delight in poisoning your mind.

So please, stay away from them.

And always remember:

“An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.” ~ Unknown

If you’re reading this blog, chances are that you are a good person with a big heart who loves to be of service and who want to help those in need of help.

But be careful.

There are people out there who don’t want to be helped – they might look like they need help, but they don’t really want to be helped – they just want to play the victim game so that you will feel sorry for them.

Pity is the energy they feed with. And by you pitying them, they are in fact taking energy out of your body and your own life and using it in a way that’s not really beneficial for any of you.

So please, take your energy back and stay away from these toxic people.

You know the saying, give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man how to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime?

Well, needy people don’t want you to teach them how to fish. They just want you to give them your daily fish and be there for them nonstop.

And if you dare to create some space between you and them to live your life, they will use all the tools they have at their disposal to make you feel sorry, guilty, and ashamed.

And trust me, they’re really good at what they do.

So please, do yourself a favor and remove these toxic people from your life.

We all have ups and downs and we all have moments when we want to talk to somebody about our problems.

But to be around someone who complains nonstop about everything and everyone, that is exhausting.

Chronic Complainers take the life out of your life by constantly pointing out what is wrong with the whole world.

And if you value your health, sanity, happiness, and well-being, you should stay away from these types of people.

5. Chronic Blamers

People who constantly point the finger by blaming their parents, partner, children, boss, workers, society, and the whole world for how miserable and unhappy their lives are, are people who haven’t yet learned to assume responsibility for their own lives.

And if they point out the finger at others, they will eventually point out the finger at you as well. Stay away from them.

6. Manipulative People

It can be quite a challenge to identify these people immediately, especially if they are really close to us.

They know what to say when to say it, and they seem to do all things perfectly.

And even though your eyes may not see them for who they truly are, your intuition will somehow know something is off – your gut will send you all kind of signals that something is wrong – and if you choose to listen to your heart and follow your intuition, you will save yourself from a whole lot of pain, drama, and misfortune.

Keep your eyes wide open. Trust your instincts. And stay away from these toxic people. 

7. Gift Givers

Who doesn’t like to receive a nicely wrapped gift?
We all do.

And gift givers know this very well. As a result, they use this “trick” to control and manipulate us by offering us a gift, after gift, after gift.

Why? Because they know that by doing so, we will feel as though we are indebted to them, which makes it easy for them to control and manipulate us. Clever, right?

Pay attention to how you feel around these people and notice if you feel in your heart that their gifts come with strings attached.

Your heart won’t lie to you. And if the answer is “yes,” chances are that this person’s nice behavior is not really that nice.

If you want to know how to spot an energy vampire all you have to do is pay close attention to your energy levels and how you feel around certain people. Pay attention to whom your energy increases and to whom your energy decreases. Because that’s a clear sign of who you should allow in your life, and who you should stay away from.

9. Gossipers

You don’t have to be a genius to understand that if someone talks badly about others with you, they talk badly about you with other people. It’s a pattern. A disease. An addiction.

And if you value your peace of mind, your happiness, and well-being, you will stay away from these toxic people.

One of the most powerful lessons I have learned from life is to always keep your two feet on the ground.

Because just as the wise Lao Tzu said it more than 2500 years ago,
“When you stand with your two feet on the ground, you will always keep your balance.”

When you know your value and your true worth, you don’t really fall for flattery.

You understand that whether people love you or hate you, that has nothing to do with you. 

But if you’re not there yet, other people’s seductive and deceiving praises might get to you, failing to see that through their seductive and deceiving praises they are only trying to trick you into doing the things they want you to be doing.

So please, keep two feet on the ground, and stay away from flatterers.

What about you? What is one type of toxic people you have learned to stay away from? You can share your comment in the comment section below 

P.S. I want you to know that I am all about loving and treating people with love and respect. And I do believe with all my heart that at the core level we are all pure and loving. But I have learned, the hard way, that not all of us are ready to live life from a place of Truth and Love.

And that is why is important to honor and love ourselves enough to walk away from all those people who aren’t yet ready to love and honor us.

Source:     PurposeFairy

Tuesday, August 1, 2017

And August Just Arrived


The 8th month of the year 2017 has just arrived and it has brought with it gifts that are worth working for.

Do not for any reason miss your own gift from August because like you know "all good and perfect gifts come from God"

By the reason of His Unction, I proclaim to you that in this month of August, God shall

*In blessing - bless you beyond your imagination
*In providing - provide for you that your cup would be running over
*In protection - protect you from the hands of your enemies
*In shielding - shield you from the vagaries of the weather, that they hurt you not

*He shall strengthen your right hand that whatever you do shall prosper
*He shall quicken your feetsteps that you go to where favour shall follow you
*He shall make you a conqueror and not the conquered
*He shall make you victorious and not a victim
*He shall make you the head and not the tail
*He shall make you the lender and not the borrower

This month
Your destiny helper shall locate you and
You shall fulfill your destiny

The Almighty shall fulfill His Words
Key into them

Whatever you need that is yet to come, call it by name, be specific about it and He shall grant the requests of your hungry soul in accordance with His Holy Will and His Riches in Christ Jesus

It is well with your soul

You are blessed

Join me to welcome the Month of August 2017
Let God continue to reign supreme in our lives


Monday, July 31, 2017

Are You Prepared For That Decision That Will Ruin Your Life?

What's riskier? Staying in a job you're not growing in, or quitting your job and starting all over? James Altucher asked one of the most brilliant questions: "How many people can make a major decision that will ruin your life?" If all it takes is one person to say "You're fired" or "Our entire department is getting laid off" or "Amazon just bought our competitor, we're screwed," then who's at risk more? The person who didn't take any risks with their career and was relying on permission from other people to learn new skills and move up the corporate ladder? Or the person that said to themselves, "I've seen this story before. It doesn't end well. Why don't I pack my bags, get my life together, try some new things and see what sticks." It's impossible to live life without risk. If you're avoiding it, you're asking for a miserable, unfulfilled life. "It is in the presence of danger that we are gifted with the strong incentive for action, dedication and surpassing oneself" ~ Anne Dufourmantelle (To the people who have a spouse, children, mortgage, etc - Risk is not saying YOLO and missing your child's tuition payments. Risk is understanding that the best way to take care of your family is to make sure you're prepared when that 1 person makes a decision to ruin your life.

Risky Or Riskier - Which One Appeals To You?

It is risky to HIRE people. Even riskier not to hire them. Risky to try something new.  Even riskier not to. Risky to voice your opinion. Even riskier not to. Risky to give someone a chance. Even riskier not to. Risky to live. Even riskier not to. Do you agree?

As The 7th Month Of 2017 Ends


The last day of July 2017 is finally here, though it did not take long to come but I am quite happy that it has come.

On the 30th of June, we prayed that the Good Lord should grant us His grace to enter the new month in peace and happiness and also see us through it, not only did He grant our first wish but He has also brought us to the last day of the month.

And He is not going to rest until He takes us to the next new month which is the month of August because He is not noted to leave any job half completed or unfinished.

Whatever He starts, He will not only finish but also make it perfect.

It's Monday and it is the last day of July 2017, are there any programs you had planned to execute but which did not see the light of the day in the outgoing month, don't worry, pray to God for grace because tomorrow will not only be a new day, it will also be the commencement of a new month and as you know nothing is fixed, anything can happen.

Welcome to this new day and may you experience the peace and joy that the world ordinarily cannot give.